Episode 124

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Published on:

8th Feb 2023

2 Keys to Become More Attractive to Women

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We are talking about 2 keys to becoming more attractive to women. Every man wants to be attractive to women, but we often work on it from a man's perspective and not a woman's perspective. This has a bearing on both single men and married men. Your work in these two areas will help you grow as a man and be more attractive to women if you are a single man or your wife if you are married.

Being More Attractive Fits Single Men and Married Men

  • Single men desire to be more attractive to women, but the biggest problem is they think about attractiveness from a man's perspective
  • So what many single guys do is focus on their physical in order to get women
  • This may attract some women but if we aren't mature emotionally they will often be shallow women
  • Single men should focus on all the other areas of their life as much or more than their physical
  • Smart married men would work to stay attractive to their wife
  • All relationships are journeys and they can go to deeper and deeper levels of intimacy depending on how much the couple chooses to work on it
  • Growth is a big key to a great long-lasting relationship
  • They should grow themselves so they can love their wife better

The Authentic Journey

  • Men must go on the authentic journey if they want to realize their full potential as men
  • Too many men will put on different masks based on the situation and what they need to be
  • Authenticity is attractive to women
  • Women want a man who is genuine in his abilities and reactions
  • A man's authentic self will attract the type of woman he is naturally attracted too
  • An authentic man knows who he is and has a pretty good bearing of himself
  • Authentic men want a real relationship and not just sex
  • Being authentic helps us be more attractive to women and gives us the ability to experience deeper levels of intimacy with our wives

Security: The Secret Sauce

  • One of the biggest weaknesses in men today is insecurity
  • One of the biggest and most obvious reasons for insecurity is the lack of role models in boy's lives
  • We must recognize our insecurities as men or they will enslave us
  • Insecure men do not attract strong secure women
  • Security gives us our own minds
  • Security gives us the ability to stand against outside pressure
  • Security gives us power over perfection
  • Security gives us the propensity to grow
  • Security is the secret sauce of attraction


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Many guys get trapped in focusing on one area of their life at the expense of everything else. It could be their physical health, their career, a sport, or even a hobby. The problem is this: A Truly Successful Life isn't one-dimensional! That is why there are miserable millionaires. Who cares how much money you have if, for example, you have no one you can call a true friend?
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David and Reese Maxwell are a father and son duo with a passion to help men live the best life possible.