Destination: I Do - The Real Reason We Date
Destination: I Do - The Real Reason We Date
We are talking about dating and the purposes behind it. This is important to us as we are looking for relationships.
Dating is to see if they are the person you want to marry. If it is anything less, we fall into some nasty problems. This is why dating shouldn't be a casual pastime, but a purposeful journey to find a life partner.
We are going to explore the pitfalls of aimless dating and how to avoid them.
Eternally Casual Dating
Dating casually is a pretty crappy hobby
When dating is a hobby, the inevitable heartbreak will always show up
Question: "Why would you have a hobby that only ends up hurting you?"
Casual dating prevents genuine connection.
If both parties are not 100% committed, you will never get to the true depth of a relationship.
Dating Girls to Impress Other Guys
Dating to impress other guys….. is weird! No, it really is! Please don’t do this, we beg you!!
When we date for external validation, we will always be swimming in the shallow end of relationships.
Dating to impress other people brings inherent insecurity to a relationship.
You Stay Stuck
The fear of emotional pain keeps many men away from deep meaningful relationships
This is a problem because they think past hurt dictates future outcomes.
Avoiding commitment prevents necessary change.
Casual dating will not push us to grow.
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