Episode 249

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13th Feb 2025

What to Do if You're Afraid of Asking a Girl Out

What to do if you’re afraid of asking a girl out.

Fear of asking a girl out is a universal feeling for men everywhere. You can't expect not to feel fear, but you can do some things to increase your confidence. When you do this you will have the courage to move ahead in spite of your fear.

God designed men to lead women- that means we need to take the first step- even when we are scared. Here are a few tips to help you when you want to ask a woman out.

Make a basic outline.

  • Know what you like about her so you can say that in a natural way
  • Know what you want to ask: number, or date.
  • Keep it simple and direct.

Don’t ruminate, act.

  • Don’t overthink it or you will be planning your wedding before you even ask her out!
  • Keep your plan simple and act on it

There is a Respawn

  • There are billions of women in the world.
  • This one person isn’t the only person.
  • There only needs to be one right person.


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